Dee's back in the hospital

[Dee4j]

now i have a fever :eyecrazy: ..ugh.i want to go home

[TheViking]

Dee, per our phone conversations, you need to chill out.  I know it sucks, you have crap to do, but you need to get healthy first.  I know what your going through having to wait until your body does what the doctors want before they will let you out.  Hang in there, do what you have to do so you get back to 100%.  Then you can handle your business and get back out camping again.
That was my pep talk.
 
Now, you also said that Dan massaged your leg and that might have made the clot move up into your lung.  That is ezactly the reason whay when Kristi asks for a massage I decline.  I'm looking out for her health!

[DK&3kids]

Hey Woman,

I'm back home and glad to get the update since we talked yesterday...listen to Brian - he likes to be right and this time he is!!!!  We're all praying for you - special hugs from Zach, your favorite brown noser.

xoxoxoxoxoxo,
Mennells

[Dee4j]

Now, you also said that Dan massaged your leg and that might have made the clot move up into your lung.  That is ezactly the reason whay when Kristi asks for a massage I decline.  I'm looking out for her health!

wait! Wait! I think I have to sneezzze. aaaahhh bulls*** :J

[Dee4j]

Hey Woman,

I'm back home and glad to get the update since we talked yesterday...listen to Brian - he likes to be right and this time he is!!!!  We're all praying for you - special hugs from Zach, your favorite brown noser.

xoxoxoxoxoxo,
Mennells

tell Zach.. hugs Back!!! fever and headache I had last nite are gone...who knows  what was up with that...

I'm cancelling and rearranging the week as we speak. now if I can get it thru Dans head what rest. don't move means :rolleyes:

[wavery]

tell Zach.. hugs Back!!! fever and headache I had last nite are gone...who knows  what was up with that...

I'm cancelling and rearranging the week as we speak. now if I can get it thru Dans head what rest. don't move means :rolleyes:

Good luck with that one :yikes:  That guy is the closest thing I've ever seen to perpetual motion..... :p

I'm sure that Dan is worried sick about you. Whatever the Dr says.....that's what he's gonna want you to do, I'm sure. :sombraro:

[Sue Hardee]

tell Zach.. hugs Back!!! fever and headache I had last nite are gone...who knows  what was up with that...

I'm cancelling and rearranging the week as we speak. now if I can get it thru Dans head what rest. don't move means :rolleyes:

Dee--Oh my God,  I should read this board more often...you take care of yourself and do what the docs say....your family doesnt understand because you are such a take charge person...put your liittle butt down and REST...We all need your back with us.  Meanwhile I will put you on the prayer chain at Heather and Bryan's church.  Please be good to yourself and be the queen for a while....you do deserve it.  All my prayers and good wishes for a speady recovery are  being send up right now...We all love you....

[Chez Way]

I'm sorry to hear that you are back in the hospital but I guess this means your body is telling you that you need some rest and recovery time before you get back into your normal routine.  Please take care of yourself and let others take care of you!  

xoxo
Jeanne

[SURFcampers]

Dee,
 
We haven't been on the boards in a few days. We're terribly sorry to hear you're back in the hospital. Now I know the concept is foriegn to you, but you MUST REST!! You're in our thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery. Miss you a bunch!

[GLM'sGirl]

Hi Dee,

Hope you get well soon!! Oh and do what the doctors tell you so can go camping again.


Lisa, Gilbert and Matthew

[Camping Coxes]

Hey Dee --

Even though we haven't been around to camp lately, I lurk every so often to keep up with everyone.  
 
I'm really sorry to hear all that you've been going through.  You are tougher than anyone I know, so I know you'll be fine.  But as everyone has said, you have to be so "not Dee-like" and slow down and take care of yourself instead of worrying about everyone else!  Let Dan pamper you a little bit --although no more leg massages!  LOL  
 
We miss seeing you and all the rest of the SCCamper family.

[mrsoreo57]

Dee...Dee...Dee...let me tell you how to get what you NEED to recover. Have you're DR "WRITE DOWN" what you can and can not do.  When someone wants you to do something refer to written instructions...Not on "can do" list...can't do...etc. And the fail safe test....will the world stop turning if you don't do this or that ...if the answer is "NO", then it can wait or someone else can do it.
I am lousey at recovery (like you), but I have learned that "one" recovery is faster than two.  
OK, pep talk/lecture/wisdom over,  take care of yourself and we will see you soon in a CG near you....

[Dee4j]

Dee...Dee...Dee...let me tell you how to get what you NEED to recover. Have you're DR "WRITE DOWN" what you can and can not do.  When someone wants you to do something refer to written instructions...Not on "can do" list...can't do...etc. And the fail safe test....will the world stop turning if you don't do this or that ...if the answer is "NO", then it can wait or someone else can do it.
I am lousey at recovery (like you), but I have learned that "one" recovery is faster than two.  
OK, pep talk/lecture/wisdom over,  take care of yourself and we will see you soon in a CG near you....

That is a good idea..since Dan doesn't know what the word pamper means...
I was soooo mad and frustrated at Dan & especially his brother who is suppose to be an adult.. can't handle something simple like make sure the kids have lunch..I couldn't catch my breath and my sister called the nurse to check on me
so sister left work early today to get tomorrows instructions..since Dan Nor his twin brother can seem to take care of things..she is also taking Thurs off to handle Kara's school stuff. hopefully I can go home by then. the problem I'm having now is the location of the clot in my leg. it's in my thigh and is painful so the muscles in my left leg that was working now hurts too much to moe which makes it near impossible to get out of  if bed. the PT got me out of bed but the pain in my leg was horrific and I get short of breath real easy. so back to staying in bed. hoping tomorrow will be better. if i can't get ou of bed myself they may move me to and transitional place first.

[mrsoreo57]

OK, I see you're problem.  You are going to have to have a heart-to-heart talk with Dan....."Dan, you fathered two children, now I need you to take charge of those children so that I can recover.  Because if something really bad happens to me you will be in charge "FULL TIME"...which do you want  If you have to, start this talk with a 2x4 up side his head so you know you have his attention.  At this point in you're life you need to put "you" first...remember...if the world isn't going to stop turning...don't worry about it.
You are worth it Dee, demand the respect that you need to recover. Look them in the eye and just tell them "handle it"...

[mrsoreo57]

Dee, I don't mean to sound so harsh...think of this as a friendly "2x4" up side of you're head.  I care about you and want you to be healthy and happy, I only know "in you're face" types of encouragement.